-Introduction-

This is not about My Personal Life, rather My Personal Perspective on Life.
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Showing posts with label -Reality-. Show all posts

-Infidelity-

The Truth is. It's not an easy Task to stay Firm & Faithful in a Relationship. Just talking of Commitment will cause the knees of many to go weak. Women and Men alike. 

In Contrary to popular Belief, that guys are always the ones that are afraid of losing their Freedom. Women these days are just the same. Even if it's only less than a quarter of them. Still. There's a different kind of Happiness in being Unattached than being Attached.

With Attachment, comes Responsibilities. Next comes a World that no longer Belongs to Yourself. But Everyone else that has been Tied with the String. A Bond that could not be Broken. A Relationship called Family.

In the Game of Infidelity. It causes more Harm than just Two, or even the 3rd party. It could Break a Family apart. Yet there are many that do not Realize how Selfish and Self-Centered they are being by thinking only of their Joy, their Lust, their time of Relaxation that is actually Hurting another person. The person that truly Cares, and that truly Love them.

A single Mistake. And all the Make Believe Happiness. All the so called Perfect Life will be Washed away in a Blink of an Eye, followed by a Sea of Sadness. The Consequences of a Disgraceful Lie.

If you don't Love your Spouse. At least think of your Children. If you don't Love your Children. You can go to Hell. Who on Earth do not Love their own Flesh & Meat? As they always say. It's a Part of You. You  Created them. You Made them. You have to be Responsible for your Actions. That may Lead to Unhappiness among your Family. Among your Children.

And in this Game of Infidelity. No one is Excused of the Blame. Be it the Person who Commits the Sin. Or the Accomplice that Played along.

::..Every Choice you make. Every Action you take. You are to be held Responsible for Everything that Happens along the Strings of Life..::

-Death II-

What always Happen::..Accident..::



Just heard from a friend of mine today, that a friend's Father passed away, because of an Accident. Details Unknown, just Hope she'll Stay Strong.

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Case I::..Family:
Father And Mother I Love You..::

I'll Start this with her Father. If I'm in her Shoes, I cannot even Start to Imagine how much Tears I'll Cry, how I'll Break Down and turns Weak. And if I'm even Able to Accept Reality, what's more to Return to Reality.


Every Time I Dreamt of Death, Especially when it Involves my Parents, I always wakes up Crying, Jolted out from Bed with my Heart Racing. I cannot Envisage Something that has Never Happen to the Ones I Love. But I know, I have to Write about it, about Death. For Someday, I'll have to Deal with it, Face it myself. If I were her, would I want People to Console me? Show Pity and Compassion, or would I want to be Left Alone? Escaping Reality Momentarily.

Death has no Reverse Switch, we can't just make Someone that's Gone into a Deep Sleep to Wake Up. For the Soul has Probably Arrived to a Faraway Land, perhaps Someplace where Man Love to Call as Heaven, where Misery do not Exist, but only Euphoria, and Smiles that Fills the Place. But How Can the Living knows For Sure? How can they Move on Unsure of What Awaits those That has Breathed their Last Breath? We can Never Know. After All, there's a Reason, it's called the After World. Right here, right now, we're living in the Before World.

I had Quite a Number of Friends that has Lost their Dad or Mum in their Early Teen Years. Until Now, I Still Cannot Comprehend the Pain they had to go through, and I hope I Never had to until the Day where I could. But Life is Uncertain, so is Death.

Each Time my Dad Rides his Motorbike Out, I Pray to the Buddha that Everything will be Alright, and that He comes Home Safely, that's all I Ask for. My Family is my Everything, I cannot Predict Life without Them. My Home is My Sanctuary.

Without them, what Makes it any Different than Hell?
Will Heaven Exist in My Heart & Soul again? Would I be able to Redeem myself for the Wrongs I've Done? Resurrect the Spirit that had since Vanished from My Physique?

I Have to be Strong, I Will be Strong for them. They're all that Matters, more than Anything Else in My Life. After All, We're of the Same DNA & Blood.

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Case II::..Lover..::

I knew of a Girl who Lost the Love of her Life, She Loves him Dearly, He was Just the Same. But an Accident took it all Away. He Left her Alone, She Never Forgets about Him. But She Moves on, in the Name of His Memory. She Still Counts how Many Days has He Been Gone, but her Tears No Longer Fall. For He Lives on in Her Heart, Always Had, and Always Will be her Greatest Love of All. The Story that will Never Ends. For She Believes, No Matter Where He is, He's Always Close By, Looking After Her.

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Case III::..Friends..::


When one of your Best Friends says Goodbye before you do. What does it Feels like, losing Someone that had their Share of Joy & Sadness with you? Suddenly, the Whole World seems to have Stop Moving, the Clock Stops Ticking, the Sky turns Grey, and the Rain Poured Heavily. The Atmosphere is Simply too Heavy & Dark to Withstand.


Alas, you Lost Someone to Talk to, Someone that Listens, Someone that Makes you Laugh, Someone that Cries her Heart out at You, Someone that has Always been Supportive of You, Someone that has Always Stood her Ground for you, Someone that Always Reserve a Place for you in her Heart.[her=Her|His]


What Happens when you Lost Someone Like that? One that you Really Cared for, One You've Spent Half of your Life Getting to Know them, One that you has Begun to Regard them as Family.For they say Friends are Siblings that we Never Had. What's more when You Love them as A Part of your Life. Their Presence you have Gotten Used to. Yet Suddenly, it all Fades Away, and Turns into Dust. What's Left is the Path You've Walked on, the Place You've Been to, The Memories Both of You Shared.

It Saddens me when Death Happens. It Pains me to See it Happens. It Hurts me if it Happens. I only Hope that Death wouldn't be Painful for the Ones I Love & Care.


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What Can we Do::..Be there for the Ones that Lost their Dearest. Be Strong when it is you that Lost your Dearest.:.Life moves on No Matter What, there will be a Time when the Grieving shall Stop, For the One that's Gone want you to Mourn no more..::

-Death-

Death. It's as Simple for the Dead, as Complicated for the Living.
Death. It happens everyday, many of which disregard it's presence, until we are forced to face with the brutal truth, of losing the ones we love in a blink of an eye.
Death. There will come the time when the Grim Reaper comes knocking on your door. And Who is that stranger clothed in a black cloak with a hood and His skeleton fingers holding on to a Scythe?
Some refers to Him as the Angel of Death, others regard Him as a Spectre of Death.

Whoever He is, He is here to claim your Soul, transporting It to The Other Side. Whichever side that is, it is Obscure to man, whether it's Heaven or Hell or neither of each.
Some say it's in Between. Spirits lingering on Earth, wondering Souls man claim them to be.

What is happening at Present..::

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Disease::..

Recently it's all about H1N1, it seems like almost everyday someone dies of that Influenza. That it has become rather "normal" to see Death being reported on the news. What about those that lost their love ones to the Virus? What about them? What happens after the ones that lost their struggle against the disease which in the end claims their life? When they leave their dearest ones behind.

I can only have the slightest idea of the Pain it cause, the Grief it inflicts to one's Psyche. Only when it happens to the people we Care for do we Realize, that "Life is too Fragile to be taken Granted of". Yet we Forget the very next day. And Repeat the same Errors in the Present that we might have made in the Past.

Show your Love now, Life is all about Love, about Living with Love, and Giving Love for as long as you Live..::

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War::..

What is the Cause of War exactly? All I see are Narcissistic Mortals creating it for their own Benefits, the Heresy they hold on to their so called Faith.

I don't get the Point of Destroying what have Been Created for Us.
I don't get why Humans Impose their own Ideas and Beliefs on One Another, One of Their Kind, and Those That are Not, to Join them, Enforcing man to Act Accordingly for everyone's Ostensible Benefits.

All throughout the years, many had became Sacrifices for such Unfortunate Events Induced Solely by Human Actions and Nothing Shall Be Associated with the Creator of The World, Race or Religion, Destiny or Fate, the Question of which no one has an Answer to. The fact that all the Questions & Conflicts in the world Arises from Human Nature has Nothing To Do with The Unseen Force and The Natural Course of Life.

Uphold the Principles for an Ideal Life instead of what the Idealist perceive as Life Principles..::

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Suicide::..

For all the ones that commit this Offence, be it in the name of another, or due to Unbearable Burden.
You pay for your own Sin, that is both in the After Life & Previous Life, When You're Gone.
The After Life refers to the life after you've move on, but I doubt you'll see any Light to Guide you to the Eden of Dreams, instead it's probably Pitch Black, in a world without Colours, literally.
The Previous Life refers to the life of others when you Forsake the ones that Love & Cherish you. Taking your own life will bring nothing but Grief to the ones Concerned.

The worst case of all are Suicide Bombers, killing in the name of God, and I thought He's merciless, I wouldn't know, I won't say I believe He Exist, yet like an Apparition, you can't Deny what you can't See.
Optical Illusions happen all the time, in life there's more than One Way to see One Thing.
Not only did they took their own life, they brought Souvenirs to the After World as well. That is if they're even Approved to be Admitted.
What happens when there's no place for you, when they throw you in the Dungeon of Hell? What happens then, I believe that's when you get All That You Wish For.
Death, I doubt the Taste of it will be Sweet. Hatred is what Contributes to Mass Destruction.

Do you know that Japan has the Highest Average of Longevity? Meaning the Life Span of Japanese are longer than any other of their International Counterparts? Yet, Japan scores the Highest Rate of Suicides as well. No kidding, how Contradiction it is.

According to a man that tries to save as much people as he could from Committing Suicide, he opens a Coffee Cafe right by the beach, his Main Intention isn't really to Brew Coffee. But to Stop those that comes to the Rocky Ends intending to Throw themselves into the Killer Waves.

Almost everyday there's bound to be one that has made up their mind to End It All. The Benevolent man then shows Empathy when he sense what they're Intention are.
He then sits them down and have a chat with them, succeed in Persuading 1 out of 3 to never comes back, 1 out of 2 still comes back to the site, yet 1 will return to their own life, determined to Start All Over Again.

Some cultures deemed Suicide as a form of Dying With Honor, others regard it as the last Responsibility you are Entitled to perform when all else fails.
But, whatever the reason it is, You Pay With Your Life. And the Aftermath of it.

If Life is not Easy, what makes you think Death is?..::

Through-The-Kaleidoscope